Define functions with foldl foldr - haskell

Question

I understand the definitions of foldl, foldr, but I have problems with functions defined by them.
For example map with foldr:
map f [] = []
map f l = foldr (\x xs -> f x : xs) [] l
I don't understand the (\x xs -> f x : xs). It is the map function, which foldr takes? But shouldn't it be (\x xs -> f x : f xs), because map f (x:xs) = f x : map f xs?
Example with foldl:
concat (x:xs) = x ++ concat xs
concat' xs = foldl (++) [] xs
concat'' xs = foldl (\ys y -> ys ++ y) [] xs
Of course I understand (++), but what's the logic behind (\ys y -> ys ++ y)? Is it ys = [] and y = xs?
So the function takes [] as ys and y is the first element of xs and concates the [] with the y?
Concrete example:
concat'' [1,2,3] = foldl (\ys y -> ys ++ y) [] [1,2,3]
=> foldl (\ys y -> ys ++ y) ((\ys y -> ys ++ y) [] [1]) [2,3]
=> foldl (\ys y -> ys ++ y) [1] [2,3]
=> foldl (\ys y -> ys ++ y) ((\ys y -> ys ++ y) [1] [2]) [3]
=> foldl (\ys y -> ys ++ y) [1,2] [3]
=> foldl (\ys y -> ys ++ y) ((\ys y -> ys ++ y) [1,2] [3]) []
=> foldl (\ys y -> ys ++ y) [1,2,3] []
=> [1,2,3]
Another thing: concat only takes 1 list xs, so if I want to concat 2 lists?
concat (x:xs) ys = x ++ concat xs ys
concat [1,2,3] [4,5,6] with foldl?
Reverse:
reverse (x:xs) = reverse xs ++ [x]
reverse' l = foldl (\xs x -> [x] : xs) [] l
reverse'' l = foldr (\x xs -> xs ++ [x]) [] l
The foldr is intuitive clear (with the questions from above), but what's behind the reverse order in foldl (\xs x -> [x] : xs)? This foldl (\x xs -> xs ++ [x]) [] l would be wrong, wouldn't it?
Thanks a lot!

Answer 1

The code
foldr (\x xs -> ...) end list
could be read, roughly, as follows
scan the whole list
if it's empty, just return end end
otherwise:
let x be the element at hand
let xs be the rest of the list, after having been processed
apply the ... operation
The emphasized part is crucial. xs is not the rest of the list, but the result of the "recursive call" on it.
Indeed, xs is a bad name for that. In thee general case, it's not even a list! E.g. one would never write (silly example)
foldr (\x xs -> x + xs) 0 [1..100] -- sum 1..100
but rather prefer something like
foldr (\x partialSum -> x + partialSum) 0 [1..100] -- sum 1..100
(Actually, one would not sum using foldr, but let's leave that aside.)
So, just read it like this:
map f l = foldr (\x mappedTail -> f x : mappedTail) [] l