dot is not working in htaccess as defined in htaccess rules - .htaccess

Question

I don't have much knowledge in .htaccess and I am struggling with regex concept in .htaccess.
I want same url concept as on facebook for user profile but dash(-), underscore(_), dot(.) this I want in url also currently my url rule is as follow:
RewriteRule ^([a-z,\_,A-Z,\_,\-,0-9.][!pagenotfound|home|abuse/*|user/*|start/*|login/*|account/*|message/*|find/*|cms/*|accountactivation/*|register/*]*)/?$ memberspersonalinfo.php?members=$1 [QSA]
This pattern have some error
but when in my browser domain.com/username is comming it's working fine but when url will be domain.com/test-test or test_test or test.test it redirects to `PAGE NOT FOUND PAGE
and in my .htaccess rule defined to follow that rule like abuse/* have dynamic id wherever I have used star (*) they are referencing dynamic value. When I will do rule like
RewriteRule ^([a-z,\_,A-Z,\_,\-,0-9.]*)/?$ memberspersonalinfo.php?members=$1 [QSA]
It's working fine but when I moveto home page then it calls memberspersonalinfo.php page it self.
I am trying to explain my Question again with htaccess script
Options +FollowSymlinks
RewriteEngine On
RewriteBase /
DirectoryIndex index.html index.php
ErrorDocument 404 /pagenotfound
ErrorDocument 403 /pagenotfound
ErrorDocument 401 /slapme/pagenotfound
ErrorDocument 500 /pagenotfound
#index
RewriteRule ^index.html$ index.php [L]
RewriteRule ^index$ index.php [L]
RewriteRule ^home$ index.php [L]
#nopage
RewriteRule ^pagenotfound$ nopage.php [L]
#Regitration
RewriteRule ^register/createaccount$ userregistration.php [L]
#Regitration Confirmation
RewriteRule ^register/accountconfirmation$ registrationconfirm.php [L]
#Activation Regitration
RewriteRule ^accountactivation/([a-z,\_,A-Z,\_,\-,0-9]*)/([a-z,\_,A-Z,=,\_,\-,0-9]*)$ registrationactivation.php?UsercontactID=$1&AccountId=$2 [L]
#after login
RewriteRule ^user/main$ after_login.php [L]
#Payment Detail
RewriteRule ^user/myaccount$ useraccount.php [L]
#Logout
RewriteRule ^user/logout$ logoutuser.php [L]
#creategroup
RewriteRule ^start/creategroup$ http://domain.com/start/creategroup [L,R=301]
#Forgot Password
RewriteRule ^user/forgotpassword$ http://domain.com/user/forgotpassword [L,R=301]
#Login
RewriteRule ^login/userlogin$ http://domain.com/login/userlogin [L,R=301]
#Remove account
RewriteRule ^account/remove$ removeuseraccount.php [L]
#Send an email page
RewriteRule ^message/?$ contacttouser.php [L,QSA]
#Report any site user page
RewriteRule ^abuse/([0-9]*)/$ reportsiteuser.php?reportUserID=$1 [L,QSA]
#CMS FIND FRIENDS PAGE
RewriteRule ^find/friend$ http://domain.com/find/friend [L,R=301]
#CMS TERMS OF USE PAGE
RewriteRule ^cms/howitworks$ howitworks.php [L]
#CMS CREATE OWN SLAP PAGE
RewriteRule ^cms/createownslap$ createownslap.php [L]
#CMS BRAND OR PRODUCT PAGE
RewriteRule ^cms/brandorproduct$ brandorproduct.php [L]
#CMS APPS AND FEATURES PAGE
RewriteRule ^cms/appsandfeatures$ appsandfeatures.php [L]
this my full htaccess code everthing is working fine all rules are working but when i add
#group personal profile page page
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/abuse(.*)
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/user(.*)
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/start(.*)
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/login(.*)
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/account(.*)
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/message(.*)
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/find(.*)
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/cms(.*)
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/accountactivation(.*)
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/register(.*)
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/social(.*)
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/images(.*)
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/css(.*)
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/js(.*)
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !/userimages(.*)
RewriteRule ^([a-z,\_,A-Z,\_,\-,0-9.]+)/?$ memberspersonalinfo.php?members=$1 [QSA,L]
it always loads memberspersonalinfo.php